Newbie here hey just wanted to say hi, i'm 20/f bi-curious in michigan. what's going on?

hi nellerbell :)

quiet today I'm winding down,off to bed in a couple of hours.

Pretty good Boy, the forum sure seems pretty quick about sending folks here...

really quick haha how did you know that? they seem like they might be a little clicky, at least to me...

We're notoriously cliquey too.... ...at least as far as SOME people are concerned... LOL

click on someone's handle to see their profile (if they've filled it out) as well as their recent posting history. Been a fair amount of girls sent here by recently. Meh, breaking into a new forum can be tough if ya just stumble into it pell-mell.

You know what is a little disturbing Is the way they portray bi people. So it is only bi people in there looking to pick up, never lesbians, and bi folks are never not looking for a pick up but just want to talk to women. From their Attendant, I quote: "When someone starts a conversational thread, it often leads naturally into something else. There are some comics here. Occasionally the forum is invaded by right wingers/instigators/fundamentalists who like to bait us, or tell us we're all going to Hades. You get some serious types who overstate the obvious, shy folk who pop in and out, bi-curious types who think this is a pick up joint, and a few trolls who seem to get a voyeuristic thrill out of eavesdropping on queers. It's pretty varied. "

Much as I tend to like lesbians There's a special "chip on the shoulder" a select few of them have that really rubs me the wrong way. I think it could be phrased like; "You have a penis, therefore you are a piece of shit."

to be honest I think quite a few straight men are horribly arrogant in their attitudes towards women. That's something I pretty soon realised after I began my change. So I personally wouldn't blame any woman who despised men even though they might well be lumping the good in with the bad

Yeah, I know there's gotta be a ton... ...of legitimate reason behind the attitude...I probably can't possibly realize the extent of it without actually trying to live as a woman... I just don't like being despised just because of how I was born. It's not fair.