What do you think? I don't know if I'm overreacting or not, but I had been seeing someone on and off for maybe two months. I wanted to date casually, but she totally fell in love. It really wasn't working, so I ended things last weekend. She lives about 20 minutes away and right near her job. I still talk to her to be cordial, well she tells me today that she's looking to move in a month when her lease is up, down right near me. Granted, it is a good location, but it's not near her work or anyone she knows but me. As a matter of fact, one of the neighborhoods she's looking to rent in is mine. I think she's doing it to get close to me, even maybe keep an eye on what cars are parked in my driveway in the evening. Am I overreacting? Since last weekend, I've been nice, but haven't said or done one thing to lead her to believe that there could be another chance. As a matter of fact, things had been going down hill before that. Any thoughts?

I think you're right to be wary If she does start showing up try to keep a record of that just in case. But don't overreact. Try to hang out with friends rather than stay in,let her be aware that you have a life away from her.

Yeah, good idea B. So, do you have any fun plans for the weekend? What's your forecast?

I forecast rain Just got home from work. As I got off the bus the thunder was rolling around but I got home before the rain started. No fun plans,I'm working the 6-2 shift all through to next Wednesday. How's your summer? Does it get humid where you are or do you get a dry hot summer?

how did the interview go? Did you get the job? Did I miss the thread if you posted about this already?

no,I didn't post as CB had already posted that day that she didn't get the job she interviewed for. Interview wasn't too bad but there were at least 2 other people who interviewed better as I didn't get the job. My line managers were surprised when I told them,they said they'd thought I would get it. The next day two of them came to see me to ask if I was still interested in becoming a supervisor;I think they asked because one of my line manager's applied for another job. So maybe they're thinking I could apply for her job if she moves on? All is not lost yet :-)

I hopet you get the position. Sorry you did not get the one you interviewed for the other day.

will let you know what,if anything,happens NOT downhearted

This summer has been great, I'm just so happy to be back in NM. The weather is definitly cooler than Dallas as they can go weeks at temps above x everyday. I can get a tiny bit humid here, you probably wouldn't notice it and since I haven't been back east in almost two years I notice it more. It really is a beautiful climate though, NO complaints!!

have you done a background check? i.e., i think you may be overreacting based on the information here