When I was 20 years old and got my job every guy there that was married told me the same thing: Don't get married! Stay single and enjoy your life! The sex stops as soon as she says "I do" So, I stayed single for the last 14 years and took time to mature and get to know myself and what I really wanted out of life. Now, I'm with the greatest girl in the world and we are planning on getting married. I love her so much that if (God forbid) she were in an accident and couldn't have sex with me that I would still stay with her. Not that sex is everything in a relationship but true love conquers all. So, to all the people that fucked up and got married too young only to find out it was all a sham, all I can say is that I'm sorry and I hope you find the kind of happiness I have found.

remember this post in 18 months when you want to start whinning about your new wife never being 'in the mood'

I'll keep it in mind but the truth is that we are both older and more mature. We see love making as an expression of our physical love for each other. As long as we have love, we will have great sex.

well..this is all fine and good while you are having sex but NOT having sex for a while..well..let's see I hope not..but I am ..um..jaded from experience

I'll keep you posted and I'll def be honest about it.

What kinda accident?

Idk, like a car accident and she is left in a coma or something tragic like that.

Okay gotcha, I have a weird mind thought you meant like fireworks in her Hoo ha

hahahahahahahahha hon..the ground is wet..so..do you mind??

hey, we ARE pretty kinky. It could happen!

i'm 35, female, and past My point of usefullness. No one wants to marry me now. Fuck waiting, I should have gotten married and had at least a few years of companionship instead of a lifetime of solitude.

Hi cat lady

i dont have cats.

Please! 35 is young my GF is 35 and well in her prime! Smart, sexy, and mature. What more could I ever ask for?

guys who want that soon realize that is a fruitless endevour. Smart, mature, sexy and established is the best way to go.

have you looked around? You are the exception, not the rule. Guys my age that are single and straight are few and far between. Guys older want much, younger women. Trust me on this. I know what I'm talking about.

not true! you're young

Bullshit