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Alpha Male: observations and advice
1) Taking on bigtime alpha characteristics truly does reap rewards that are quite substantial. The change in how women react to you is extremely striking. Suddenly they are seeking you out, and not vice versa. 2) However, it can be quite stressful and result in serious dissolutionment if you naturally have very spiritual/caring qualities. This is nothing to be ashamed of. THE KEY: Work on seamlessly shifting between "alpha" and "beta" depending on the circumstance. This is what is lost in typical discussions of the male roll. Fuck the polarized debate you are used to. The real world is a billion shades of grey. - If you naturally are a very flexible and caring "beta type" (me) then work on shifting to a scorched earth "fuck you i'm the man" policy when needed. Experiment...make mistakes and fuck up...get better at it. - If you are naturally more of an "alpha" dominant type, then work on sensing out when the alpha mentality is actually hurting you...and you need to take on a more caring/listening roll. This is really important, since there are times when taking on this more beta characteristic will actually give you greater power, and not detract from it.
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